How To Flirt
Consider the following scenario. You have just seen a person who you think could be the perfect mate. There is a strong feeling of attraction, and you sense that the feeling is reciprocated. But then you are brought up short by the difficulty of the next step: How to get to know this person? There is a one-word answer to this quandary: flirting. For many, flirting is as natural as a baby's smile, but those who are taking their first steps will not know what to do. Given below are some tips for first-time flirters.
What you need:
- Confidence
- Style
- Interest in potential mate
Instructions:
- Flirting is for fun, so lower your guard. Do not have high expectations from the situation, because most encounters do not lead to a serious relationship.
- Relax your body and smile. Nothing attracts the opposite sex more than a smiling face.
- Try to assess the person before approaching him or her. Observe whether the person also seem to be interested in you.
- Staring is not a good idea. Make eye contact, but only for a few seconds.
- If the person shows interest, start a conversation. Begin with small talk.
- If the person seems to be interested in you, then gradually start to share information.
- Don't give the impression that you are flirting; rather, pretend that you are just having a conversation
- Compliment the person's clothes, eyes, style, or anything else that you find interesting.
- If you sense that the person is not interested, then turn around and walk away.
- Try to get a number, but don't try too hard. If the person is not willing to give you his or her number but you had a great time, then leave your own number.
- Avoid sexual or suggestive remarks.
- Don't ask the person about his or her height, weight, etc.
- And the most important thing of all, be yourself. Don't pretend to be someone you are not.
